The Friends of the School and the Threat of Bullyng
If children have or no “best” friends at school, for many parents is not an issue, what is truly important to them is on things like performance, discipline, homework. Undoubtedly, the notes and the behavior of children are critical because the school has its primary objectives within the academic training of students, however, the item “friendship” ought not be considered a minor issue.
Within the observable characteristics conducive to a child being a victim can be differentiated buylling: who has a physical condition to do it differently than the rest and has few friends I probably underlies such particularities are psychological aspects as shyness, low self-esteem , insecurity and inner sense of vulnerability or incompetence. Victims of bullying are children reluctant to react to aggression, as if they have psychological resources to defend themselves.
On the contrary, it is very unlikely that a child who feels competent, possessing a positive assessment of himself / herself, sitting together and safe, to trust adults and to be able to express their emotions get to take the role of harassment. Why?, Because before the eventual transgression becomes a constant, that child walked self-protection mechanisms, which result in protest and stand up for yourself and / or a caregiver to tell what’s going on. Bullyng The victim does not have these internal tools, so will wait quietly resigned to his fate.
Research shows that the partners involved in helping the victim by 41% if and only if this is your friend / a, ie, in this context, the friendship becomes a protective factor, especially when schools respond poorly or belatedly. Especially in cases where schools do not seem to have policies and protocols defined reaction, support networks are emerging as a compensatory aid tool of paramount importance, is how often despite the silence of the victims friends may appear to be effective communicators, or because you have directly to the parents of the victim or because they tell their own parents and they act as key agents in the detection of situations of harassment. Like a swarm tissue, both friends and slated proxies can operate as a network that embraces and protects those who can not do it themselves, but for this to have that effect it is essential that parents understand the genuine dimension and the benefits of friendship.
Friends are very important in the development of every child and teenager, beyond bullyng situations. The bonds that are forged outside the home are the platform on which the minor tests and practice values ??such as loyalty, friendship, respect, collaboration and many others, for that reason this item debiese families regain priority. For only children could be seen as even more relevant given that these children have less practice settings where social interaction, which in some ways the brothers say.
As can be seen that the children whether or not “best” friends not the same, meet the friends and parents of the same opening as an opportunity for development. These relationships also provide defense, provide fun, laughter, joys, sorrows also skills, envy and anger, ultimately offering the full range of emotions that we all must learn to approach and deal with them to complete what appears repeatedly in web pages educational institutions, what they call comprehensive training.
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